Wine Adventures

How to enjoy ALL the flavors and aromas of your favorite wines.

I know you've been in the company of wine geeks who swirl, sniff, sip and spit, saying arcane things like, "I'm getting some crushed black cherry on the nose, and a bit of eucalyptus...there's dried leaves and forest floor on the palate, with some black tobacco on the finish."

And I know you've stood there thinking, "What the hell are they talking about?

Well, there's actually something to all this...and it's easy to learn.  Just start to recognize the five major flavor components of wine, and you'll be making some astute tasting observations of your own.  Watch the new video to learn more!

About Corkage and Unpleasantness

Sticky subject.  Many fine dining restaurants allow guests to bring their own wines and charge a corkage fee that can range anywhere from $10 (nice) to $100 (ouch).  Some will allow only wines (or vintages) they don’t have on their lists, or limit the number of bottles they allow guests to bring.  Others, however, dig in their heels and do not allow any outside wine.  No way, no how.

That’s a mistake.

My good friend and wine buddy, Miles Grant, recently had a very discouraging experience at Il Mulino in New York, and it didn’t have to happen.  Many patrons of high-end restaurants are wine collectors (like Miles, who has a killer collection) and would like to enjoy special bottles at special dinners.  Second, when restaurant personnel are stubborn and inflexible on the issue they create ill will and bad publicity that can spread far beyond the initial incident…not to mention the potential loss of good customers.

Of course, some restaurants, like Il Mulino have enough business that pissing off a few good customers doesn’t matter to them.  Many wine lovers simply don’t go to restaurants that are not wine friendly.

Miles describes what happened in the letter he wrote to the restaurant owners after his “encounter” with their corkage policy a few weeks ago.

Dear John and the Managers and Owners of Il Mulino,

This email discusses my great disappointment at not being able to open my special bottle of wine which I brought to your restaurant on Monday night October 21.

Before explaining my recent experience, I want to let you know that I’ve been dining at your original Il Mulino for over 20 years.  During that time, although I live in San Diego, CA, I’m sure I’ve dined with you at least 15 maybe 20 times.  I’ve told everyone I know, I was born and raised in Queens, that the food at Il Mulino is the best Italian food in the world, not just NY, not just the U.S. but the world, including Italy. I love your food.  Always have and always will.

I am a very serious wine collector.  I was in NY attending the Wine Experience, a three day wine event at the Marriott Marquis put on by the Wine Spectator (owned by Marvin Shanken).  My wine friends, from all over the country, bring our best wine to NY to share during the festivities.

On Monday, October 21, I dined with my friend Kevin Kinsella and his girlfriend Paten Hughes.  Kevin happens to own a winery in Sonoma County called Kinsella Estates; they make a killer Cab, probably the best Cab made in Sonoma County.  Kevin and Paten live in SoHo and dine out almost every night.

I wanted to do something special for Kevin, so I brought a 2001 Araujo Syrah to dinner.  Araujo only makes Syrah in some vintages and their production is tiny, maybe a few hundred cases of Syrah.  The wine, when aged is incredible.  Drinking the 2001 now is an experience.

We had a 9:30 pm reservation on a Monday night.  The restaurant was almost empty when we arrived. The waiter said we couldn’t open our wine.  I begged.  I offered to pay a $100 corkage fee.  This is a very special bottle that I wanted to share with my very special friends.  The waiter refused saying it was company policy.  Kevin and I said it made no sense because the restaurant will make $100 profit by letting us open our bottle or will make not one penny on booze as we were not going to buy any alcohol in light of your policy.

While I love your food, wine is a very important part of my life.  I always bring wine with me to restaurants.  Not to save money but to drink what I want to drink, which is great wine that is properly aged.  Restaurants rarely have great wine that is also old.  Most bottles in most restaurants are simply too young to really be enjoyed.

So, I ask you, why not change your policy?  Charge a $50 or $75 corkage fee?  Limit the number of bottles?  Don’t allow wine brought in that you have on the wine list?  But, if you don’t change your policy, neither Kevin, nor I, nor any of my wine friends, who feel the same way about this as I do, will ever again dine at any of your restaurants (as good as the food is, there are other great Italian restaurants where we can bring in our wine).  I truly hope you re-consider so that we can continue to enjoy your great food.

Thank you.

P.S. We called the restaurant to try get the names and email addresses of owners and managers of Il Mulino, but the person answering the phone refused to provide this information so we’re sendi
ng this email just to the email addresses mentioned on your website

So it’s up to us wine lovers/collectors/enthusiasts to help restaurants like Il Mulino, Daniel Boulud, and others understand that having some sort of corkage policy, however limited, would gain them more in good will and memorable dining experiences than it would cost them in dollars.

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Boiling Your Burgundy

Makes it taste better…???

My friend Lee over in Miami, who I’ve known since the 7th grade, got into wine a lot sooner than most of us.  In college he met a woman (Rebecca, now his wife of 40 years) whose father managed a wine and liquor store.  He started buying, and still sits on Grand Cru Burgundies he bought in the 1970s at prices that make me weep.

Anyway, I got the following email message from him the other day.  It’s a new perspective on the care and storage of fine wine.

I'm cleaning out the back of my SUV before I take it to the car wash on Monday. I keep a large insulated folding bag in the back that I use to transport groceries and wine in the warmer months. I'm lifting the bag and it seems heavy. I open it and find a bottle of the 2005 Champy Vosne Romanee. That means it's been in the bottom of the bag almost a month. Probably cooked I'm thinking. I cool it off in the refrigerator and go buy some salmon. I open in and place it in a carafe. That night Rebecca gets home after seven and I end up not drinking the wine at all. The wine is gone anyway and I leave it on the counter until yesterday . I'm making roast chicken so I put the decanter back in the fridge. I figure Rebecca is working a little late and I might as well try this bottle, not being sure about it or her arrival time.

The result was the wine was better than the other two bottles of Champy that I opened previously .  This blew me away. This bottle was cooked and then opened on a Monday and drunk on a Thursday.   So now before I open any Burgundy I'm leaving them in my trunk for at least a month and opening them 4 days before drinking. Go figure.




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